We tell kids to “be grateful” all the time. It sounds kind, even wise. But for children carrying deep hurt or fear, those words can feel like a shutdown.

Holistic care is more than a philosophy. It’s a way of seeing the full picture of a child’s life so adults can respond with clarity and consistency.

Children facing adversity often have complex needs that no single entity can address alone. When communities unite, they combine their resources, expertise, and compassion to provide comprehensive support.

Caring for a child who has experienced trauma or adversity requires a thoughtful, child-centered approach. Whole Child Initiative’s experts have compiled these five tips to help caregivers make a meaningful difference in the lives of children.